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IEP Meeting Checklist

You've got this. Use this checklist to feel prepared, confident, and ready to advocate for your child — before, during, and after the meeting.

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Before the Meeting
Documents You Should Have Received
Meeting invitation with date, time & location
Schools must give you written notice at least 10 days before the meeting.
A copy of your child's current IEP
Review it ahead of time — note any goals or services you have questions about.
Progress reports on current IEP goals
These show how your child is doing on the goals set at the last meeting.
Procedural safeguards notice (your rights)
This document explains your rights as a parent. You should receive it at least once per year.
List of who will attend the meeting
You have the right to know who is at the table. You can also request specific people be present.
Any recent evaluation or assessment results
If your child was recently re-evaluated, you should have the full report before the meeting — not during.
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During the Meeting
Questions to Ask at the Table
"How is my child making progress on their current goals?"
Ask for specific data — not just general statements like "doing well."
"Can you explain this goal in plain language?"
You have every right to ask for jargon to be explained clearly. Never feel embarrassed to ask.
"What services will my child receive, and how often?"
Frequency, duration, and location of services should all be clearly listed in the IEP.
"What does my child's day look like in school?"
Understanding where and how your child spends their time helps you spot gaps in support.
"What can I do at home to support these goals?"
You are your child's biggest advocate — knowing how to reinforce learning at home makes a real difference.
"I'm not comfortable signing today — can I take this home?"
You never have to sign the IEP at the meeting. You have the right to review it first.
After the Meeting
Follow-Up Items to Stay on Track
Request a signed copy of the finalized IEP
You should receive a copy within a few days. Keep it somewhere safe — it's your child's legal education plan.
Write down what was agreed to — in your own words
Notes from your perspective are valuable. If anything feels unclear, email the team to confirm in writing.
Confirm that services have started as scheduled
Services should begin on the date listed in the IEP. Follow up if you notice a delay.
Ask how and when you'll receive progress updates
Progress must be reported as often as report cards are issued. Know when to expect it.
Note your child's next IEP review date
IEPs must be reviewed at least once per year. Mark it on your calendar so you're never caught off guard.
Reach out if something doesn't feel right
Trust your instincts. You can request a meeting at any time — you don't have to wait for the annual review.
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You're fully prepared!

You've gone through every item. You're walking into that meeting ready to advocate for your child with confidence. Remember — you belong at that table.

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